What should tops know about bottoming?

Bottoming takes time. No, I don’t mean douching. I mean it legitimately takes time for the muscles to stretch and relax which tells your nervous system, “Hey, this is safe!” If sex is rushed or too intense right out of the gate, this can lead to injury.

Tops should also take time to learn how to use their pelvis during sex. Pounding can be fun, but everyone can get a lot more out of sex if the top learns how to use their pelvis to control the depth and speed of sex.